Finding someone can be really difficult

This is one of those things you read a lot about on the message boards concerning bdsm. It is very hard to find someone real. It is. I mean, I can see how it would be hard if you were new to the scene, or if you were just looking for the possibility of playing, but even for lifestyle submissives and service slaves, it is very difficult. I keep reading about how hard it is for women to find a lifestyle submissive, which I am, but at the same time it is really, really difficult to even gain the attention of a woman who might be looking for exactly what you are.

I would like to say that I have the answers to this one, but I really don't. Since moving back to California, I kind of thought things would work out a lot smoother, especially because most of my real life experience in the bdsm communities has been in California, but it seems like the whole nature of being a submissive/slave has changed into a much harder dynamic to break back into.

So, I find myself searching, but I'm really not sure how to go about finding someone anymore.

Started adding content to the site

I have started adding some articles to the bdsm writings section of the site. So far, I have included four of my previous articles, and I will be adding more as I am able to find more time. Eventually, I hope to have the site up to the level that my old site was at, although this time around I will be avoiding including a lot of personal contact information, but will eventually include ways to contact me that are less intrusive than the old days. In the old days, my contact information was way too evident, which eventually caused me some unnecessary problems that could have been easily avoided.

The goal is to offer a site that is useful to those who are exploring this whole community, both as noobies and veterans.

My first post on this blog

This is probably no surprise to anyone, but this is not my first blog. I've been running a somewhat vanilla blog for some years now, and unfortunately because of how my friends are set up, I've never really been able to post anything that's REALLY about me and my submissive lifestyle. Yes, I am a submissive, and to those in the know, I'm not an unknown person in the lifestyle either.

What I am hoping to do with this blog is be able to find a place where I can post all of my thoughts, my commentaries to and from friends in the scene, my articles, my stories, and everything else that fits into this type of dynamic.